As the days go on and the more blogs I post, you will begin to notice that most of mine are based off of my random thoughts, writings, or just ranting. I've been told in the past that my posts are usually very interesting to read and sometimes funny. I hope this still stands true for all of you.
Today was just confusing as the past few weeks in my life. I have been trying everything in my power to keep a positive about everything in my life, but sometimes it just doesn't work. I have come to the conclusion that friends only care to talk to me when they have something they want to rant about or in some cases, whine. But when it comes time for me and I don't seem to be my usual perky, funny, lame self, I am given the cold shoulder. I'm fed up to be quite honest. I guess that's what you get when you're the nice person people know they can run to because they know you'll never turn your back on them in a time of need. But don't let me start this post off this way. I just needed to let that out and now that it is, I will begin on my random though of the day with some details behind it so you have an idea of what's been going on.
I recently began speaking to the boy who has my heart again. We've never technically been together, but for the past several months, I've fallen for him. Hard. It's something I cannot explain or even figure out. Well the problem is that I know I will never be able to be with him because of the distance. We are in two different states and the distance is quite substantial. I hate it, I wish I could change it, but there's not too much I can do. Where I am getting at is my own opinion of a LDR. Here it is:
If two people truly love and care for one another, what does it matter? Yes, it's hell of a lot harder, but it can work out. It takes just as much trust, communication, love, and truth as any relationship with your significant other that lives five minutes away. Okay, it may take a little more, but to me, there's really no difference. Only problem that stands in the way is not being able to be physically together. The hugs, kisses, touches - well, you catch my drift. But if your love is so strong and it enables you to love from far away then I really see no problem.
So, this was going to be longer, but I have to cut it short. I would love to hear some of your opinions and thoughts on it along with feedback. If you'd like to hear more of mine, let me know. I really hope to hear from someone soon.
Thanks for taking the time to read this. :]
xoxo
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